PAUSE
It is usually difficult to think clearly in the middle of an argument. Tell your child that you are taking a short break. Move away, take a deep breath, and/or do something else for a few moments. Resume the discussion when you feel a little bit more calm and creative.
CONNECT
If your child is acting out physically, introduce an alternative means of physical expression, such as drumming, stomping, running or pushing against resistance.If your child is crying or screaming, repeat what she says in a tone of voice that matches her intensity. Then ask “Is there anything else you want me to know?”
RESOLVE
Children need help learning to compromise. After the emotion has settled, see if you can determine your child’s concerns and briefly share your own. Work together as a team to find a mutually agreeable solution.
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We believe that all behavior is purposeful. When parents have a better understanding of the factors driving their child’s choices and actions, they have increased access to a variety of effective techniques for resolving conflict and preventing misbehavior.
We teach child development, temperament and current brain research, as well other factors that motivate behavior. Equipped with this information, as well as our versatile and comprehensive tool kit, parents will be able to:
Correct unwanted behaviors at the root cause to avoid the need for repetitive consequences.
Intervene quickly and effectively to minimize tantrums and other emotional outbursts.
Minimize and quickly defuse power struggles.
Teach responsible, developmentally appropriate problem solving strategies.
Create a positive relationship that celebrates their child’s unique and emerging personality while supporting self-confidence and resourcefulness.
about robin and karen
Inspiring Connections is the teaching partnership of Robin Goldstein-Lincoln, MA LPC and Karen Alonge.
About Robin:
I began my career teaching high school while earning my M.A. in Curriculum and Instruction in 1995. While earning my M.A. in Counseling Psychology, I worked as a high school counselor. Upon graduating in 1997, I became a middle school counselor, and later, a staff psychotherapist at a community agency in New York.
More recently, I have been working in private practice as a psychotherapist and parent educator and consultant in Boulder.
My husband and I are the proud parents of a fiery nine year old who serves as my greatest teacher and student. Every tool in our Inspiring Connections parenting classes has been kid tested and approved.
In my free time, I enjoy yoga, hiking, skiing, and spending time with family and friends.
Visit my website at http://www.robinglincoln.com/
About Karen:
Since earning my B.A. in Communicative Disorders and Psychology, I’ve owned and operated several successful small businesses, including a home day care where I took care of 4 babies under the age of 18 months (yep, all at the same time), and a postpartum care service. In 2003, I became an intuitive life coach and parenting consultant after graduating from an extensive training program at Coach University.
My two fantastic kids (I’m so objective …) were both born at home — my son proudly serves in the US Coast Guard, and my daughter is in high school.
For fun, I spend time with family and friends, hike in the mountains, read voraciously, and post lots of free parenting advice at my blog http://www.advice-for-parents.com/.
Come visit me at my websites:
http://www.advice-for-parents.com/
http://www.pattern-release-technique.com/
http://www.karenalonge.com/
About Robin:
I began my career teaching high school while earning my M.A. in Curriculum and Instruction in 1995. While earning my M.A. in Counseling Psychology, I worked as a high school counselor. Upon graduating in 1997, I became a middle school counselor, and later, a staff psychotherapist at a community agency in New York.
More recently, I have been working in private practice as a psychotherapist and parent educator and consultant in Boulder.
My husband and I are the proud parents of a fiery nine year old who serves as my greatest teacher and student. Every tool in our Inspiring Connections parenting classes has been kid tested and approved.
In my free time, I enjoy yoga, hiking, skiing, and spending time with family and friends.
Visit my website at http://www.robinglincoln.com/
About Karen:
Since earning my B.A. in Communicative Disorders and Psychology, I’ve owned and operated several successful small businesses, including a home day care where I took care of 4 babies under the age of 18 months (yep, all at the same time), and a postpartum care service. In 2003, I became an intuitive life coach and parenting consultant after graduating from an extensive training program at Coach University.
My two fantastic kids (I’m so objective …) were both born at home — my son proudly serves in the US Coast Guard, and my daughter is in high school.
For fun, I spend time with family and friends, hike in the mountains, read voraciously, and post lots of free parenting advice at my blog http://www.advice-for-parents.com/.
Come visit me at my websites:
http://www.advice-for-parents.com/
http://www.pattern-release-technique.com/
http://www.karenalonge.com/
our philosophy
We believe that all behavior is purposeful. When parents have a better understanding of the factors driving their child’s choices and actions, they have increased access to a variety of effective techniques for resolving conflict and preventing misbehavior.
We teach child development, temperament and current brain research, as well other factors that motivate behavior. Equipped with this information, as well as our versatile and comprehensive tool kit, parents will be able to:
Correct unwanted behaviors at the root cause to avoid the need for repetitive consequences.
Intervene quickly and effectively to minimize tantrums and other emotional outbursts.
Minimize and quickly defuse power struggles.
Teach responsible, developmentally appropriate problem solving strategies.
Create a positive relationship that celebrates their child’s unique and emerging personality while supporting self-confidence and resourcefulness.
parent testimonials
“The quality of the teaching was exceptional! It has been a life altering experience for me.”
“Robin and Karen were great resources. They addressed all the participants’ concerns and offered suggestions on how to handle each situation.”
“This was a very helpful class. Already I see big improvements in our relationship with our daughter.”
“The information was relevant and the tools could be implemented immediately.”
“I’m using techniques from class every day and things are improving.”
“Robin and Karen were great resources. They addressed all the participants’ concerns and offered suggestions on how to handle each situation.”
“This was a very helpful class. Already I see big improvements in our relationship with our daughter.”
“The information was relevant and the tools could be implemented immediately.”
“I’m using techniques from class every day and things are improving.”